Meet Demetra Jones of Sonora, Hardin County, Kentucky.The year is 1916 and she has just celebrated her 11th birthday.♥
I do hope Claire*, of
No Knitted Knickers fame, won't object to my highlighting her comment on my last post,
Water Meadow ...
[I] spend most of my time [on the blog] trying to distract readers from the fact that I make very little, which, given it's supposed to be about learning to make things is a bit of an issue.
Sure sounds familiar to me! I just don't have the time for knitting that I did and I'm struggling with that. Although I did fritter away an hour or two today deciding on a pattern for a winter wrap and choosing the yarn from my stash. I've settled on
Ashby from Brooklyn Tweed and some Jo Sharp Classic DK Wool that's the colour of glacier ice. It's the perfect winter colour, the palest of aquamarines ... I'll show you soon, I promise. (See, I'm distracting you from the fact that there's not a stitch on the needles yet!)
Please tell me Claire and I are not alone in this. We can't be the only two for whom time pressures come between us and our chosen crafty occupation and, in turn, our blogs. And is it just me who struggles to post if I don't have a picture of what I'm posting about to share? Which trait, I might add, hasn't been helped by the washout summer of 2012 ... all those damp, gloomy days made daylight photography an impossibility for much of the season, and I do loath using flash. I fear I've been over reliant on alternative picture sources of late, but sometimes they're a source of wonders that are impossible to resist.
See the bow in her hair? And is that crochet, or tatting? I really can't tell.♥
Being a perfectionist doesn't help. As
Sue said, "... if we're at all picky about what we make, our output is somewhat slim, and by default, so is the posting ...". And of course, being a knitter, even if I don't frog a project it takes me a good while to complete it. And longer again to take a shot of it that I'm happy with! Knitting is very much
not my favourite thing to photograph**. In fact I'm thinking I might tackle a few stitched makes purely for the photo opportunities they'll provide.
The
Hattatts - Jane? Lance? it's always a mystery who - observed that I "have a lot going on in [my] mind and in [my] life at the moment". To which I can only answer, too much! Regular readers will know that though I'm far from being a warts and all blogger I don't balk at the occasional reality check. And our current reality, aboard the good ship
knitsofacto, is not an entirely comfortable one. The Mr's expected redundancy may not have materialised but we are still sailing stormy seas and - to continue the seafaring analogy - pieces of eight are in jolly short supply just now.
Which is not to suggest we're on the verge of destitution, but unearthing some buried treasure is definitely on my to do list! To put it bluntly I have money making plans - essential if my studio is to become a reality and my stash of yarn is to continue to grow - and I'm hoping you'll forgive me the few discrete sponsor links that may appear in the months ahead,
and that you'll be as excited as I am about the possibility of a little
knitso' shop launching sometime soon.
Here she is again, with her younger sister. Lewis Hine's caption reads: "Father said:'She's the only farm hand I got. She helps a lot in the field work and house work too.Is good in school - 5th grade.' He owns the farm and expects to build soon."♥
I can actually tell you a little more about Demetra. She was born, in the log house you can see here, on June 23rd 1905. And she died, on October 29th 2006, at the grand age of 101! She had married farmer Sandford Ferguson in the summer of 1922, and survived him and three of their five children. Apparently she credited her longevity to her faith, vitamin supplements, and a life long fondness for fat meat. And a year before her death she was still eating sausages fried on the same GE electric range that she bought in the mid-1940s when her home was finally wired for electricity. They built things to last back then!
It's awesome what you can stumble across when rooting through archives for something else!
♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥
* To whom many thinks for the giveaway win which recently caught up with me. More on that in another post. And while I'm thanking people, thank
you for your too kind comments on my last post, you made my day :D
** I'm clearly not alone in this, at last year's London Knit Nation the first classes to sell out were Franklin Habit's 'Photographing your Fiber' offerings.
I think most knitters/bloggers can relate to what you're going through especially those of us who have so many other responsibilities in our lives as well. I adore knitting -- it's my one true passions -- and I often feel that I don't ever get enough time to enjoy it. But rather than feel bad about that, I'm making an effort to steal moments when I can and be fully present while I'm knitting. As for blogging, I love it but can't even imagine posting without a photo or two!
ReplyDeleteI too have to confess I have very little time for crocheting and crafting in general. I try to squeeze it in where I can and then inevitably I rush what I'm doing as I don't have the time to sit and plan and it comes out completely wrong :(
ReplyDeleteI blame having two children under 3 but is that really a valid excuse? Me thinks not :)
Victoria xx
I'm time rich at the mo, redundancy!, health issues mean the prospect of finding employment, especially in these times, will be very difficult! I've dug several holes in the garden but as yet, no treasure! We have to stick to a very tight budget, so I do need to find some income otherwise how do I continue with my vintage sheet addiction! Personally I think it would be good if you opened your little shop, use your talent to earn extra income! I'm sure there are lots of us who would love a knitsofacto original! Ada :)
ReplyDeleteI think we can all empathise with you here. Sorry to hear about your current circumstances and wish you every success in you upcoming venture. That wrap is wonderful and the colour yarn you have chosen sounds perfact. I might be tempted to make one myself!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry that you have difficulties at the moment - tough times at the moment. But I think a shop is a good idea - I look forward to seeing what you come up with!
ReplyDeletePomona x
See this is why I love your blog, it has a heart and a sincere one at that. I am presently reading the info about Demetra (and what a beautiful child she is) out to my husband, who chuckled at the sausages. I hope the good ship KnitsoFacto rides the storm, we are in the same position although I keep my head firmly in the sand. Get that shop going - I need a pair of finger less gloves so my hands don't freeze over when I can think about something to blog about.
ReplyDeleteHello Annie:
ReplyDeleteFirst, thank you so much for the very kind and generous link to our blog. We very much appreciate your generosity.
Troubles [to misquote]......they come not as single spies but in battalions....We have long thought that never were truer words written than these! But, what we absolutely love about your blog is the way in which your personal voice rings true. 'Knitsofacto' is so obviously your creation, it bubbles with your personality and ideas, it is honest and genuine, it shares successes, failures, good and less good times. It is you. And for that we value it very much.
Without a doubt you have immense creative skill and when you are generous to share that with your readers it is inspiring. We who cannot thread a needle or cast on are in awe of your abilities and love to see what you have created. However, we admire most of all your strength of character which shines through,no more so than in these difficult and worrying times which you are facing. But, face them and overcome them you surely will.
Knitsofacto the Emporium sounds to be a brilliant idea.Do it!
Hi Annie,
ReplyDeleteYou find such lovely pictures to add your posts. I love the black and white pictures, I always feel sad when I see pictures like this for sale in shops think it is a shame that they haven't stayed in the family.
I'm sorry you have had a difficult time lately and hope you new venture will help to ease things. What an exciting thing to do!
Thank you alsosome much for the knitting patterns, I am so excited and can't wait to buy some wool at the weekend and start some knitting!
Sarah x
What a lovely girl Demetra was. I think she's tatting, based on the thread spool, the position of her hands, and the look of the project.
ReplyDeleteTo continue the earlier discussion: Another complication for bloggers who also design is that sometimes we can't show pictures of our work because we're hoping to sell the pattern to someone else for publication. (Or we don't want to spill the beans before publishing it ourselves.) So we fill up the empty corners with food photos, or descriptions of bike rides, or haiku.... :)
If it's any consolation, Annie, I suspect most of us read your posts not for the hope of knitting advice or photos, but because you always offer something delightful, or thought-provoking, or both. You don't write a craft blog - you write a well-rounded blog, which I think is much better.
A Knitso shop is a very exciting idea! The best of good luck with your pecuniary endeavours.
Do you know I dreamt that I was in Bexhill last night searching for a yarn shop. When I found it I was so thrilled.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful girl she was and what an lovely thing to have a snapshot of her life. Like you I find it hard to post without pictures to hang a tale on, but you always come up trumps either way.
X
Sorry the seas are still stormy at the moment but I am looking forward to seeing you new venture. I'm also looking forward to seeing the colour of your chosen yarn, it sounds right up my street!!! The wrap is lovely. :)
ReplyDeleteVivienne x
I do believe taking good pictures is the hardest part. Knitted goods and food seem to be notoriously hard to photograph well, at least for me. Best of luck with your shop plans.
ReplyDeleteThose images just made my day.Waht a wonderful opportunity to glimpse into her life.
ReplyDeleteI do think many of us dream for more knit/crochet time. Sending postitive thoughts your way in hopes it aids in more knit time for you. :)
The photos may not be yours, but I loved seeing them and hearing Demetra's story. Pennies are very tight in this house this month too. We have labelled October Broke-tober - just a tightening of our belts after too many splurges over the summer months.
ReplyDeleteGood for you for adding sponsors. You've worked so hard to produce this blog, let it work for you, if you can. And a knitso shop...how exciting! xx
those photographs are just the most lovely thing i have seen all day
ReplyDeleteSo, we're not alone then, but the great thing is, it doesn't seem to matter that the blog is about other things most of the time. Having been out of work for a year, I can only sympathise about money worries. But your plans sound exciting and you'll make it work. Everything crossed for you.
ReplyDeleteBtw, have just read your review of Pale &Interesting. Wonder what on earth you'll make of the giveaway!
Thanks for the link to NKK. Chuffed to bits to be in such good company.
C.x
It's a lovely book ... it's useful! I am very happy to have it. And there are some truly pretty things in it, some of which would be perfect presents for my sister ;)
DeleteAnnie, I always love your posts and the pictures ... yours or otherwise ... I too suffer the time to craft problem ... I so love to make and create nut my time is eaten up caring for my little family and all that entails ... I do hope to sneak a bit more making into a winter months ... fingers crossed that works out ... Bee xx
ReplyDeleteI hear you Annie, time is always short around here too. Your tactics for distraction are divine though, I love these photos AND the story! Can't wait to hear more about your knitso shop, so exciting!
ReplyDeleteJanine
Hi Annie..I am quite happy to visit and enjoy a good read even if you never show another stitch! I just love a blog where the writers real life and heart for life come through as genuine. Having been through the stormy waters insecure employment and unemployment can bring I can say from experience that although it is initially a shock, there was some value found as well, which was surprising to me. However it is always a relief to find some relative financial stability afterwards...of which I hope for you both before too long.
ReplyDeleteAnnie, this is a post that's well written, and is filled with thoughts and observations that many of your readers can appreciate and agree with.
ReplyDeleteThe Hine photos of Demetra are beautiful. I do think that she's tatting in that first picture. Isn't it marvelous, strange and even troubling to try to imagine that long life she led. It could also be inspiring, if we take a positive view.
As my own life lengthens, I do try to keep a positive outlook, and not to give too much weight to troubles. Having seen many past troubles through to their eventual wilting, it's a bit easier now to not put too much emphasis on the dark clouds.
I do love it when a new breeze brings the clear sky back for a while.
I am so glad to have connected with you via this strange electronic community. xo
Your new wool for your new project sounds divine - I can picture it perfectly - even without a photo :)
ReplyDeleteBlogging without obligation is the best way to do it .... As with just about everything else in life!
Annie, I enjoy your blog because it is written by you about you. I was asked the other day why I blog and why I read blogs. My answer was, "Well, basically I'm a nosy person and like to see what others are doing." I think this is why I blog also. I want to share what I'm doing with others. And it always amazes me that someone want to read it! I so appreciate the fact that you follow my blog and I get such inspiration from yours. You just keep doing what you are doing. I think all of us feel a connection to you and just enjoy knowing you are there and having a life you wish to share with us.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Sharon
Hi Annie,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed reading your lovely post and how beautiful Demetra is and amazing story and that she lived to the grand age of 101.
I also don't find I have enough time in the day to get all the things done I want to and selling my bears in this market is hard. Sorry you are going through a difficult time and wishing you much success in the future.
Happy week
Hugs
Carolyn
Lovely post and the little girl is crocheting fine lace crochet.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with your shop - it must be catching as I am trying to organise to open one too!
Julie xxxxxxxxx
Oh boy, what can I add to the plethora of comments Annie? All I can say is sending love and prayer and thoughts your way for this stormy times and can i put my hand up and say that I too struggle to get my creative ideas to materialise due to full time work, tiredness and family time/house-things to do. Blogging is more than just posting our crafty bits, it's a world of wonderful people all with a common thread, sometimes a thick and sturdy one and other times it feels like a thin and fragile one. Such is the crafty human condition.
ReplyDeletekeep your fabulous posts coming lovely lady, and a shop....sounds perfect to me. xox Penelope
I see and hear of so many people struggling at the moment - money issues and marriage break-ups and wayward children....and my heart just swells with compassion - wishing I could wave a magic wand and make it all better for everyone. But I can't - none of us can - all we can do is lend a supportive ear. And blogs are such good places for finding that support and comfort. I hope you get your shop up and running and that it provides you with some income. Every little bit counts, doesn't it.
ReplyDeleteOh Annie, what a lovely story about Demetra, you can always be relied upon to give us an interesting and thought provoking read. I do hope that you find the good ship Knitsofacto sailing into calmer waters very soon and that the plans for the shop go well. You have a growing and dedicated audience who will be eager to come and shop with you.
ReplyDeleteSo much to empathise with in today's post - and as the comments show, you're definitely not alone in all this - carry on regardless, that's my advice!
ReplyDeleteOn the subject of shops - please, please, please consider including tapestry yarns in your portfolio - you manage to locate so many wonderful different knitting wool suppliers, it makes this needlepointer bright emerald green with envy. If you come across unusual yarns suitable for tapestry/needlepoint - I for one would nominate you for sainthood.
Good luck - keep calm and carry on - as they say...
I really understand what you mean about knitting being difficult to photograph. The colour of the wool is very hard to show properly. And knitting is so slow, if we depended on it only for blogs there would never be anything posted!
ReplyDeleteHaving just read your last four posts in one gulp, I can so sympathise with your talk of procrastination and blogging gaps, Annie. A week without a post has been nothing for me this summer, in fact I'm surprised I have any followers left. :-) You have a lot going on in your life - some exciting (the new studio) some worrying (the job situation and associated concerns) so you're entitled to a bit of blogging downtime. Take care and I look forward to the revamp.
ReplyDeleteOh yes Annie...I think this post will ring true with so many of us...I sometimes feel I'm always busy and yet never seem to do enough of anything and have spent quite a bit of time pondering about this lately...so now I'm making a real effort to look at things by the week instead of by the day...do what I can when I can and just enjoy it!
ReplyDeleteI hope your ship is sailing on much calmer waters soon...A Knitsofacto shop sounds a wonderful idea!
Thanks for sharing the story of Demetra...what a lady and wonderful photographs from the archives too!
Susan x
And another one saying 'me too'. Admittedly my addiction has been moderated somewhat by injury and recovering from surgery, but I was never a process knitter, and always took my time.
ReplyDeleteWe've got someone in our knitting group who is a) the most talented knitter, and b) really fast, and c) really fast even with complicated patterns, and d) irritatingly, was like this even before she retired. Fantastic - but she's given so much away and I'm not sure it's all valued... I'm trying to find a downside, here, but it's hard. Sigh.
I think we all have busy times when we don't get chance to pick up the needles. The darker evenings of winter will be here soon, which always encourages me to snuggle up in front of the fire and do a bit of crafting.
ReplyDeleteI think it's about the connections we make as much as the making itself, dear Annie.
ReplyDeleteI'm just making any ol' thing in zingy bright yarns for my kids, to keep my hands moving and my mind from wandering into less pleasant places.
As for your lovely tatter, I'm off to buy some fat meat and vitamin supplements tomorrow!
Annie - thank you so much for those beautiful photos. Such a delight to discover the back story at the end of the post too. It made my day! And congratulations on your enterprise with sponsorship links. Creating a blog that people want to read, generously sharing your skills and intellect, and building readership all takes time and effort and that merits reward in my opinion. I'm sure we can rely on your good taste with the sponsors.
ReplyDeleteAnnie
ReplyDeleteWhat a fabulous post. I loved hearing about pretty Demetra. I love history so this fascinated me and I think it matters not a jot that you are not always posting about knitting. Who cares! Dont feel like you are distracting us away from the fact that you haven't knitted up a storm this week - what you have to say or share with us is just as important. You always write such interesting, thought provoking and dare I say intellectual posts!
Keep doing what your doing
Sophie
Sx
You are definitely not alone. Most of the blogs I read, once they get to a certain size and want to move forward with their ambitions of being Awesome, have to come to this decision. I think the main thing is to make sure they're GOOD ads--ads for things you like and would use, and you think your readers might like and would use.
ReplyDelete:) Keep up the goodness.
I think you're a lovely, well-rounded person who writes a lovely blog.
ReplyDeleteLike a lot of your followers I too really enjoyed this post ... Being a historian myself as well (social and local) I find hints of these kinds of stories all the time, they're like whispers from the past. What I find most poignant is that we think we'll "never forget" ... and we do, all the time. Even scraps like the odd photograph and a bit of sleuthing can therefore reveal what has lain dormant for so long. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteYes, I'm 99% sure she's tatting. See the right hand - she's about to put the shuttle through the thread ring held with the fingers of her left hand. Perhaps she made some pin money with the lace she made. Pretty good for an 11 yr old. Amazing that she lived so long and of sound mind, but sad that she saw the deaths of so many loved ones...
ReplyDeleteRegarding time spent knitting or other crafty pursuits - I do so much because I have nothing else in my life - my husband died suddenly at the age of 45 - he was 14 years younger than me and, naturally, I thought we would be together until my death. Now I live alone, in rural France with nothing to occupy my time except my crafts.
You see, having the time is not always a good thing.
Annie, I was having exactly the same problems...no time to blog, and no photos, which I seem to need to build my post around. Then I read Lisa's (Bobo Bunn) post this mornignand she was saying the same thing. So I whipped out my camera and took just a few shots , and wrote a shorter post.
ReplyDeleteLike you I ponder about how little actual textile stuff goes into some of my posts. But folks seem to read my blog anyway, and we certainly always read yours whether yarn-inspired or not. Ultimately, we are who we are, and we have well rounded lives, with other stuff happening and other commitments to concern us. And when I sometimes grumble about the commitments I would rather NOT be having to attend to, I will remember the comment form Pearly Queen, above, and give thanks that I have people around me who need my input and support. Good post, as always, Annie!
Annie, I'm super excited about your future developments on the blog and Knitso shop front. And to continue with the seafaring analogies, a realist sailor doesn't hope the wind changes, he adjusts the sails, which is exactly what you are doing with your money-making/sponsor plans. I'd love nothing more than to see your hard work pay off and a studio (with pretty wallpaper) and shop come to fruition.
ReplyDeleteI'm with you on the struggling to find time to craft AND blog. My current knitting/crochet obsession is coming at the expense of blogging because I only have a few hours in the evening for myself and I'm either making or blogging, not both.
I love your alternate photo sources and the historical information you provide to match the photos so I hope this stays as a feature of Knitsofacto regardless of what you are writing about.
Mel
PS I have some wee wooden buttons to send you from my Giveaway :-)
Like this post. A LOT. I think about our elders who have passed and wish we could have a good old chat with them about things they learned once this life's wears and tears have been washed away and they can see with new eyes.
ReplyDeleteNancy
I'd be lying if I said I didn't have the time to knit, crochet, sew or whatever. I'm not lying when I say I just don't have the skills. We should be able to trade, somehow!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing those pictures and snippets of a life once lived.
a knitso shop!! I'm excited! (great pictures...we're about 2 hours from Hardin Co; sure wish I had known Demetra!!! sounds like she was a real character!!!)
ReplyDeleteThese photos are wonderful, thank you for sharing! And as for blogging and running your own business-- you just do what you need to do! I love hearing what you're up to, no matter what. And a little back story about what you're doing or thinking about just makes the knitting have that much more of a context. Best of luck with all your endeavors!~
ReplyDeleteYour posts are always worth reading, finished projects or not! I write posts in my mind, but don't always get them on the blog. I have taken two classes from Gale Zucker on photographing fiber. Great stuff, but I haven't taken the time to practice enough. Yesterday I tried to take a photo of finished object and the auto focus isn't working properly. I have to get out the manual and try to figure it out. Perhaps my iphone is the solution.....
ReplyDeleteI know what you mean with the time pressure. I've been working so much lately that I barely had the time to do what I talk about at my blog: Truly live.
ReplyDeleteI think I'll incorporate "play" into my fundamentals that I do every morning. I find that it really helps to do the things you really want to / have to do first thing in the morning. Maybe you could add in 15 min of knitting every morning or shortly before you go to bed? :)
If you're curious to learn more about fundamentals, I first heard about them here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kln_Xgj66uo&feature=plcp